Ted The Witch DoctorIn dealing with your significant other and you want to figure out if this is the right match for you, ask yourself how you feel about yourself when you are with them. If you feel good about yourself when you are with them that’s great. If you don’t, watch out.
It’s amazing how creative we are. We all recreate our childhood. The people in our current lives resemble the significant others in our childhood. We operate in the same way: our goals, the way we pursue them, our emotional response to the world, the way we deal with others are all so similar to our childhood outlook and experience. Ask a client whether he is experiencing a similar feeling or reacting to someone in a way that reminds them of their childhood and more often than not you will get a positive response. We are so creative in reproducing our childhood experiences.